I think my communication skills is bad. I told my mum and bf how sad I m but apparently they don't get my point. All they said is "then don't buy lah" or "then cancel the card lo". Actually I don't mind paying or sup card out as long as my intention is appreciated or I get reimbursed on a timely basis.

I feel extremely cheated especially when I know u have the money to pay but don't pay or when you shopping when u still owe money or you conveniently forgot that you owe me money. Somemore i m digging my coins now to spend while you are having good time outside. I get very upset in fact when I help someone to pay upfront and the person has no intention to pay even it's a few cents. I mean I am not your parents and why do I even have to pay for your living! It's not about whether I can afford to pay, rather why do I have to support you.

Unless I willingly explicitly want to treat, please pay me back when it's incurred.